I don t know if i love him anymore. What to do when you don't know if you love your partner anymore

7 Signs You Don't Love Him, You Love The Idea Of Him

Focus on yourself right now — what makes you happy, what makes you laugh, what feeds your soul. Your mind and heart have already moved on. I fear a lot of things and sometimes I stay because its safe with him, but I want to leave to because I only have one life and thinking that I could be here forever and miss out on a passionate and loving relationship makes me upset. At the time I knew that marriages had up and down periods. I started finding things wrong with my fiancé and acting out toward him by nagging and then I stopped being affectionate. Then he also told me he needs his space and do what he wants to do and travel where he wants to go without thinking of other people, he wants to be spontaneous.

I don't know if I love him anymore.

Ask yourself these questions if he suddenly feels that some of your habits are driving him crazy. Is the fantasy better than the reality? In the last year and a half he has blamed me many many times for our relationship not being mended because he thinks I wont have sex with him often enough. Oh, he is also a widower and having spent over 20 years with her and only being 43 years old, and her dying of cancer and for thre years he took care of her…just made me see that this was a good guy, a good person with a good heart…I want to feel that attraction. Or do you just love the idea of him? One day someone might really hit home but if not it is okay also. I am a senior in high school, and last October I met the woman of my dreams. I also think he is mad with allowing himself to be so co-dependent to me all those years.

8 Signs Your Heart Isn't In The Relationship Anymore

Do you feel like you are constantly feeling sorry for your relationship? He tells me he wants to work it out and calls me by pet names of hun and beautiful and then becomes cold and distant again. And I get confused like does he really love me. Please read Why Does He Do That by Lundy Bancroft and Pateicia Evans work on verbal abuse. Tonight we just came back from a movie and went to chickfila. He and I have talked in the past about what we both wanted in life. He might even contact you wondering why the sudden change. Throughout our relationship, as I have felt the intensity of his attention ebb and flow, I have moved in the opposite direction, alternating between practically begging for marriage and panicking and the very thought of it.

When Your Spouse Says I Don't Love You Anymore

When you love someone, it's hard to accept the. He told me that he has been feeling the same way for months! I dont know if its temporary or if fear and anxiety has got the better of me. He done hit me multiple times he brings up my past bout me being molested as a young teen when he get mad. And whenever I open this topic he would become disinterested and refuses to find a job of his own. I wanted that back, the goodness of our relationship. For more information, see my page:. I told him i will support him no matter what and I want us to work.

How Do You Know If You Should Stay or Go

Not easy at all let me tell you. He never takes my phones calls or Texts , but he will everyone else. I just want to make my girlfriend happy, i dnt want to make my girlfriend feel like i doubt our relationship because i dnt, my girlfriend is someone i cnt see myself without. Talk of the future fades away. He already has a foot out the floor. Im really frustrated and don't know what to do anymore.

When Your Spouse Says I Don't Love You Anymore

Seeing other couples being so sickeningly happy is like a slap in the face. These confusion started to happen when I got into an argument with his family. If he's rude to your friends, you turn a blind eye. Coming to this page helps alleviate these feelings. I feel like a baby complaining when others problems are far worse. Hi There I have been married for almost 4 years, me and my husband went from meeting to married in 4 months In the first year we had fights, it got out of hand stuff was said and done that hurt both of us, but e worked on it.

I Not Love Him Anymore, or Are We Just in a

Around the summertime things changed. I found this article very refreshing and timely, as I just received my copy of your wedding workbook today! My family was leery about him from the beginning, and I have been wanting to prove them wrong all these years, but it just keeps getting worse. The cumulative experience of all of my divorced friends. Families were met, trips were taken, and things were moving forward. If the man wants space he is guilty of demonstrating that he doesn't love you. I fall back in love with my husband.

I Don't Know If I Love Him Anymore

He has accused me of cheating on him saying that I am addicted to looking at men even though I never do I am to scared to even look up from the ground to even look at someone by accident. I just want to say thank you for having these resources out for people who are struggling. How can I get better and start loving him again? My partner now won't touch me, he likes me doing things to him but i get nothing. When we first went out I knew he fancied me, sex was passionate, he appeared proud to have me on his arm, we talked for hours and he was always affectionate. But then I read articles like this and it helps me tromendously. The house is mine, he moved in. In less than one year, I met my fiancé online! For more Bustle content, check out our podcast.

Is Your Relationship Over? 17 Signs The Love Is Gone

Hi Don, Have you and your wife sought counselling on how to work at reconciling? Being in love- truly being in love, is wonderful. He knew so much about me- too much about me. The plan is to still be in the kids lives. It felt awkward and unnatural. You see yourself with someone else. Rather than becoming harder, life actually got much easier, because they no longer had the added burden of taking care of the people who were supposed to be their partners or dealing with the many negative emotions their spouses elicited from them. We did go to counseling and I think she has accepted the way her Mom is after denying the reality her whole life.